Being an escort can be dangerous no doubt about it, but I will offer you a tip that is easy and will keep you safer.
When I was an escort, I always did incalls because they were safe and more comfortable for me, but one thing you never want to do if you want to be the most safe is hold an incall where you also live. You could get a hotel, but this can get costly, especially if you live in a major city like New York or LA.
What I did when I was an escort was to team up with my room mate Meg (who was also an escort for a while) and got a 2 bedroom apartment in a nice area and we shared the rent. What was good about this apartment was that not only did clients no know where we lived, we also acted as security for each other. Often both of us would be there when a client came, even if it is just one of us sitting in the other room reading.
On off days, we rented out the room to two other escorts, so at the end of the month, we made a little profit.
The bottom line is, never hold an incall in the place you also live, always have somewhere, even if it is just a studio that you can use, you will be glad you did.
Not a bad idea but I’d say don’t get a two bedroom. Nothing is more mood-killing for a client than for somebody to be in the other room. It’s awkward, amongst other things, and most respectful men who seek providers will either not return or may even be turned away initially.
I want to escort in a hotel, but I’m so worry about causing attention to myself. Is there anyway i could keep less attention from myself when I do this
I was an escort for 12 years in NYC and quite popular. I left because I needed a change, after giving so long a cornered myself into a smaller world then what I could have had if I quit. I enjoy reading what you had to say, though it never mattered to me if I rented a 350 dollar hotel from as I made it back in the first hour or seeing people from my apartment, I did that too. I’d say your method is great they way you connected with another person in the business and made it work for you. I know you miss the business, it’s very freeing, but it also becomes limiting. Embrace your new life.
When I would ask the escort over the phone “is it a private residence or hotel?” I would hang up if they told me private residence. Because the experiences I had with, private residences have been nightmares; one time a child walked in, I almost got robbed, There have been physical altercations that werent money related because I dont flake. Well I didnt flake because I dont do this anymore because that whole atmosphere just doesnt do it for me anymore.
But dont get me wrong I have had awful experiences at Hotels as well but for the most part hotels sort of say professional, even if its a roach mo run down spot. thats just me I have returned to many providers who were in hotels the same week.
whats up with the hate? where are the links to my site I have been posting on topic on all of the posts, and my site is very much related to this topic.
Sorry about that, was just going through my comments and taking out links of people who do not post legitimate comments, will put them back in!
Didnt mean to Jump the gun, thanks for the reply, nice blog
It’s ok, I get ALOT of spammers on this blog. Thanks for contributing something of value to my blog