I found whether a man is hiring an escort, looking for a date or looking for a wife, in the end every man is looking for the same thing…
No…really!
I’m only 27, but I have done it all. I’ve been an escort, a girl friend,a mistress, a wife, a swinger and recently I started a legal escort agency alternative called thepetitecoquette.com, the agency is a hybrid between a sugardaddy site, an escort agency and a traditional dating service/matchmaker.
I thought of the concept after doing some real world SEO for a matchmaking agency here in LA whose website you can see here. The people who own it have no idea I was ever an escort, nor do any “real world” company I do SEO for.
The way their company is marketed is that they can introduce you to model quality women for dating for. They work mostly with wealthy middle-aged men wanting to be introduced to stunning women and their actually pretty good at what they do.
With thepetitecoquette.com, I took her concept and revamped it for the man who is seeking an affair or mutually beneficial arrangement, the sort of man who has and probably would use the services of an escort but are looking for something that is little different, plus legal and safe.
In the end, I have found that whether a man who is going to a traditional agency or someone is coming to Thepetitecoquette.com, or directly hiring an escort, they are pretty much all looking for the same thing.
They are not just looking for beauty, not just looking for an hour of your time, and certainly not just looking for sex, they are looking for something a lot bigger.
Men are looking for a woman who can make them feeling amazing, who can make them feel like the best man and the best lover on earth. Women often do not see just how much power we hold over men. Just by giving a downtrodden man an hour of happiness, it can really change him.
This is why men come to see escorts. They are not looking for sex. They are looking to feel wanted, loved, accepted. They are looking to be told, verbally or unverbally they are the best lover in the world. In their hearts, good men truly live to please women, especially in bed.
Now, I am not talked about men who are so-called “hobbyists”, the men that hang out kissing and telling on escort message boards, for them it is more of a game, but for most of them men that hire escorts, they come for a different reason.
Most of them men I saw as escort came to me only for three reasons. 1. They were married, 2. They were married to their job, 3. They could not get a woman without paying her. Out of the three, usually the man was married to a wife for many years and he was itching for greener pastures.
It was ironic, I was actually paid to fuck a lot of men I would have normally fucked and dated without money, I am one of these women ( like many escorts) who prefer men over 40.
I decided long ago that I would not be involved with a married/coupled men, except as an escort. When I first came to LA, I was introduced to two brothers, of them in a long-term relationship and one of them married. With a one two punch, I knocked out both the marriage and the relationship. That is how I got mixed up with Marc and Thierry.
To me, marriage is great for those who truly want it. There was a time I wanted it, I did it. Now I am engaged, and despite my better judgement, I am going to do it again.
